Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Basics of Sorority Sorrows and Solace

Sororities and fraternities are often associated with throwing parties and creating drama, but this blog is going to defy those stereotypes. As a sorority sister myself, I know first hand the ins and outs of university Greek life. I attend a small university, but for the topics I will address national Greek organizations are essentially the same in all places. Topics that any sister can relate to will be addressed. Those interested in sororities can also learn more about them here and comment with questions. This is not a blog to exploit Kappas or Thetas, but to exploit issues and stereotypes that all sororities face. This is also a place to celebrate successes of sororities.

People often ask, “What do you guys do?” Most students are oblivious to the obligations of sisters on campus. Most all Greeks are required to maintain an above average GPA and record community service hours, among other things. I will elaborate on such aspects of sorority life later that disprove the stupid sorority girl stereotype.

Belonging to a Greek organization is a lifetime commitment, but well worth it. The networking possibilities and the impression it makes on a resume are priceless. The success stories are endless. Some of which I will write about.

Sororities don’t just teach girls how to throw a great party and be a good wife. Sororities turn young girls into established women. They teach leadership, responsibility, and other valuable skills useful for personal and professional life after college.

3 comments:

  1. I look forward to reading more about your sorority experiences, Brist. There seems to so much secrecy and stigma surrounding this topic that your openness is refreshing. With all the potential benefits you mention, I was wondering what you think about the process of pledging. In your experience, is the selection process fair or too exclusionary/prejudicial or overly hard on the pledges?

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    1. There is much secrecy, but many things can be out in the open. One of those things is the recruitment process and pledging that you ask about. Not every organization has the same standards so I can only tell you about my experience. Like any club there are certain people who are better for Greek life than others. Recruits must display the ideals and values the sorority is looking for and if not, they are not eligible. Much like if a student who wrote only about scientific discoveries wanted to join the history journal club on campus. It just doesn't make sense. As far as being "overly hard on the pledges" many Sororities have very strict hazing policies. Hazing is another stereotype I will elaborate on later.

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  2. Thanks, Brist. You raise a good point about how it must be the right fit for both parties and that these rules/ideas apply to many clubs. I look forward to hearing more about the hazing stereotype..

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